Sunday, September 21, 2014

More of Becky "The Shopaholic" 's misadventures in THE SHOPAHOLIC ABROAD



By a stroke of luck, I was able to get hold of and eagerly read part 2 of  "The Shopaholic" series, which is THE SHOPAHOLIC ABROAD a.k.a THE SHOPAHOLIC TAKES MANHATTAN. Once I saw the title, I wondered if Becky would behave herself and curb her shopping addiction. The setting is NEW YORK, a shopper's paradise, and after the events in CONFESSIONS OF A SHOPAHOLIC, you would think she's learned her lesson, considering the guy at her bank was a lot kinder to her than she deserved. So now, she's in New York... at the request of her boyfriend, who is moving his business there and wants her with him. Has Becky turned a new leaf?  HELL NO!

Part 2 is even more hilarious than Part 1 because being in a new city only made Becky's shopaholism far worse, and why not... when several shops and NOT JUST boutiques were offering 50% off sales and stocking various items she simply MUST HAVE? Even before she arrived in New York, she was already taking advantage of another overdraft she was granted (are the people in the bank nuts???) and spending, spending, spending... aside from clothes and shoes, who on earth spends a 100 pounds on a pack of handmade greeting cards?! Suze made her promise to spend less, and the kindly chap from the bank, Derek Smeath, informed her he was retiring and his successor would not be as accommodating as him, so she must be very careful. Needless to say, Becky did not listen to the well-meaning advice, and the bills slowly started to pile up... AGAIN. Plus, Becky gets into more scrapes because not only does she spend without thinking, but she talks without thinking, which only makes it an even more interesting read.

To make matters worse, Becky's addiction is exposed in the worse possible way (which nearly happened in the previous book but luckily for her, Derek gave her a break) and not only did she lose her own credibility (which made her lose her existing as well as a prospective T.V host job)  but also her boyfriend's- she made him look like a fool in front of his investors. I felt sorrier for him than for her- she was WARNED about her shopping addiction, but she turned a deaf ear, so basically, she had it coming! But instead of accepting her stupidity, she lashes out at him (talks without thinking, remember?) about how he's been so wrapped up in his work and hits him below the belt.  Well ...  excuse your long-suffering boyfriend for trying to be a successful businessman instead of going out to buy a whole lot of new suits!

I loved this book, but Becky was really annoying, silly and more irresponsible than in the previous book. To her, her problem was just 'a bit of shopping'; to others, it was shopping bags piled up to the ceiling and an overstuffed wardrobe and cluttered bedroom, FULL of her stuff and piles of unpaid bills. Needless to say, after her "public disgrace", things at the bank were even worse for her, and she got a much-deserved scolding from Derek's successor, John Gavin:

" This is Becky Bloomwood, who has had her overdraft limit extended six times in the last year... And who, each time, has failed to keep within those limits. This is Becky Bloomwood, who has constantly lied, who has constantly avoided meetings, who has treated bank staff with little or no respect and who seems to think we're all here solely to fund her appetite for shoes!"  

Wow... harsh BUT true! One would want to feel a little sorry for Becky, and surprisingly, she still had some people loyal and sympathetic enough to offer to lend her money. But while I applauded her pride (she flatly refused), I couldn't sympathise all that much because she was WARNED, and her boyfriend ran into a big problem because of her. She must have THIS,  she must have THAT... isn't it a veiled case of materialism, this need to simply surround yourself with possessions and spend more than you earn? I'm glad the writer, Sophie Kinsella, wrote the dramatic scenes. Becky truly needed to see how her addiction could affect people close to her and take a long, hard look at herself. She, however, accepted her disgrace with dignity and bailed herself out with dignity, at the same time secretly redeeming herself by secretly fixing her boyfriend's crisis. What then is next for Becky?

Like I said earlier, an interesting and hilarious read, and it gives us a lesson- BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR MONEY!

Quote from book: 

" I know I brought it on myself..."

"That's right! You did! Becky, no one forced you to go out and spend all that money! I mean, I know you like shopping, but for Christ's sake. To spend like this... It's bloody irresponsible. Couldn't you have stopped yourself?" 

Friday, September 19, 2014

The antics of Becky "The Shopaholic" in THE SECRET DREAMWORLD OF A SHOPAHOLIC




Like Lucy Talk  and Bridget Jones Diary, THE SECRET DREAMWORLD OF A SHOPAHOLIC" a.k.a  "CONFESSIONS OF A SHOPAHOLIC" by Sophie Kinsella falls under the genre known as 'chicklit' (a name I'm not really fond of) and candidly told in the point of view of the heroine- this time it's a young lady named Rebecca Bloomwood. She works as a journalist in Successful Savings (a financial magazine) and shares a flat with her best friend Suze in a trendy neighbourhood in London. And she has a problem... she has a shopping addiction. If it's a new pair of shoes, a lovely looking skirt, a silk blouse or a pair of designer jeans, or anything charming, beautiful or interesting...  she MUST HAVE IT, even though she can barely afford it. Worse still, as the story begins- it turns out she is yet to pay her outstanding Credit Card bill and her overdraft. For the most of the story, she gets letters of reminders from Visa and her bank but what does she do; she fends them off with lies, then ignores the letters completely- wondering how on earth she'll be able to pay her debts. Yet she's unable to curb her addiction for shopping and tries to "cut back" but Suze- on hearing her problem- pointed out the best way to go about it was "Make More Money." But that failed- on her first day of her 'Saturday job', her shopaholic problem reared its ugly head and she gets fired. Don't sympathise, she really acted stupidly so she deserved it! And all through the story, Luke Brandon- a wealthy entrepreneur- pops in and out of Becky's life, keeping the readers guessing if he will be her dream man or not.

Some would see Becky as irresponsible, not to mention a liar and  a hypocrite- she knows very well she has debts to pay yet keeps spending, she lies to the bank and the credit card company and she actually gives financial advice when she can't handle her own finances. The word 'FOOL' kept popping in my mind whenever she spends even more and I kept shaking my head, wondering JUST HOW she would clear up  the mess she heaped herself in. But on the other hand, Becky had a few redeeming qualities; she refused to let any one bail her out by writing out a check to her- she never even told her parents she was in debt- and went out of her way to help a couple whose financial crisis was far worse than hers. Then she reaches a point where she stumbles on her moment of reckoning but will she be given the chance to change or be punished?

This is actually the first part of Becky the Shopaholic's adventures and while you would shake your head with exasperation at Becky and see her as a joke, still... you would not help but like her and hope she would curb her 'shopaholic' addiction eventually!

Quote from book: 

For years now I've kind of operated under an informal shopping cycle. A bit like a farmer's crop rotation system. Except, instead of wheat, maize, barley, and fallow, mine pretty much goes clothes, makeup shoes, and clothes (I don't bother with fallow). Shopping is actually very similar to farming a field. You can't keep buying the same thing, you have to have a bit of variety. Otherwise you get bored and stop enjoying yourself.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

CARBO FAN FICTION- CARLY'S DIARY PART 3






Part 3 




‘How did you happen to come with my uncle?’
‘I ran into him in D.C, my husband and I live in Georgetown. He told me everything and I insisted on tagging along. Tanner promised to come over as soon as he can. Can I see Carly now?’

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

MY DUBAI TRIP... MORE SIGHTS

Today was spent at Dubai's World Center and it's so  indescribable that I'll just let the pics do all the talking! 


























                  

                  







At Modhesh World! (sorry about the blurry pic) 

                       














Modhesh World's Food Court... 



And my lunch! :-)







After that I headed back to Dubai Mall for a little  window shopping... 
















Sighed over this lovely amber and crystal set I could'nt afford...





Or these natural amber beads either... *sniff* 






Wandered into Richard Branson's place...






And was able to buy this at least! (the friendly sales guy was surprised I preferred this over the 2005 version) 





Went to find the ladies' room before leaving; very clean and perfumed place but lousy spelling on the sign!



Tuesday, August 19, 2014

MY TRIP TO DUBAI

Hey folks!







Right now, I'm on a trip of a lifetime- 10 days' vacation in Dubai! It's more than I ever dreamt possible and I'm so excited to be here. I'm travelling with friends of course, it's the only way it could be afforded in the first place. Like  I was earlier warned, almost EVERYTHING here costs an arm and a leg, but goodness... it's all so beautiful and exotic! 










Most of the hotels here offer apartments so the four of us are currently chilling out in a nice one at THE PEARL RESIDENCE with a well equipped kitchen, a sitting room and two bathrooms! One has to simply be careful at spending and once you remember not to be extravagant, you won't have a problem. At least the breakfast buffet is free! 
Dubai's lovely and the people are so nice and friendly, and you feel right at home. The architecture is breathtaking... I couldn't take pics fast enough on my mobile as we drove to the Dubai Mall today via Shuttle Bus... 
                            


                           

















                                           

We were too wiped out after the 7 hour trip from Lagos so all we did yesterday after a rest to buy groceries, mostly bread, tomatoes, oil  and fruit- we brought some instant noodles, dried pepper, onions and yams and rice  from home to cook on the electric stove. But today, we took the bus to the mall and what a mall! 



The Palms in Victoria Island back home cannot hold a candle to this place- it was like entering a fantastic city- it had an aquarium of all things (the fish included nasty looking stingrays) 













Several restaurants and cafes....






                                           











Boutiques of almost every well known designer label in the fashion world... 














A Dinosaur Fossil display; the guide there told me it was found in Wyoming in 2008 and over 150 million years old... 


                                             




Toys stores... and I can't believe I saw this in one of them... 




And several bookstores, in the largest one called BOOK WORLD, I found and bought a long searched for book...



Then my battery went down so I could'nt take pics of the indoor theme park with games and rides, the cinemas and other parts of the mall. I was sad to leave... but it's a day and sight to treasure! 

More soon... I hope! 

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